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Texting Abbreviations and Internet Slang: LMAO, IKR, LMK, IRL, AFK, TL;DR and More (Meanings)

AdeptWrite Editorial TeamUpdated 8 min read

Texting abbreviations are shortened phrases used in chats and social media: LMAO means "laughing my a-- off", IKR "I know, right?", LMK "let me know", IRL "in real life", AFK "away from keyboard" and TL;DR "too long; didn't read". They suit friends and casual chat. In emails, reports and most workplace messages, write the full phrase instead.

What do texting abbreviations mean?

Texting abbreviations (also called chat acronyms or internet slang) are short forms that people use to type faster and sound relaxed. Most are initialisms, where each letter stands for a word: LMK is "let me know". Some are clipped words (pls, thx), some are letter-number swaps (gr8, 2moro), and a few are pronounced as words (YOLO, FOMO).

Five of the most common examples:

AbbreviationMeaningExample
LMAOLaughing my a-- off (stronger than LOL)"That meme is so good, lmao."
IKRI know, right?"The train was late again." "IKR."
LMKLet me know"LMK if you can make it on Friday."
IRLIn real life"We've only chatted online, never IRL."
AFKAway from keyboard"AFK for ten minutes, back soon."
TL;DRToo long; didn't read (a short summary)"TL;DR: the meeting moved to Monday."

Meanings below are as commonly used in English on 2026-11-01. Slang changes quickly, and the same letters can mean different things in different communities, so context matters.

The golden rule: match the register

Register means how formal your writing is. A quick guide:

SituationAbbreviations OK?
Text to a friend or family memberYes
Group chat with classmatesMostly yes
Social media post for a general audienceSparingly, depending on the brand voice
Workplace chat with close colleagues (Slack, Teams)A few common ones (FYI, ASAP, BRB, EOD)
Email to a client, manager or tutorAvoid, except FYI and ASAP in some workplaces
Cover letter, application, essay, reportNever

When in doubt, write the full phrase. A reader who does not know an abbreviation will lose time or misread your message, while a full sentence costs you only a few extra characters.

Texting abbreviations by group

Laughing and reacting

AbbreviationMeaningNote
LOLLaughing out loudNow often used as a soft filler rather than real laughter
LMAOLaughing my a-- offContains a mild swear; avoid at work
ROFLRolling on the floor laughingOlder; sounds dated to many users
LMFAOA stronger, swearing version of LMAOStrong language; avoid at work
SMHShaking my headDisapproval or disbelief
OMGOh my GodSome readers find it offensive; use with care
IKRI know, right?Agreement
FRFor real"Fr, that was great."
NGLNot gonna lieIntroduces an honest opinion
TBHTo be honestCommon in all registers of casual writing
IMO / IMHOIn my opinion / in my humble opinionFine in forums and some workplace chats
TBFTo be fairEspecially British

Making plans and staying in touch

AbbreviationMeaningNote
LMKLet me knowAlso common at work in chat
BRBBe right back
AFKAway from keyboardOriginally from gaming
TTYLTalk to you later
G2G / GTGGot to go
BTWBy the wayAcceptable in many workplace chats
IDKI don't know
IDCI don't careCan sound rude; use carefully
ICYMIIn case you missed itUsed on social media and in newsletters
OTWOn the way
ETAEstimated time of arrivalStandard at work too
RNRight now
ASAPAs soon as possibleCommon in work email; can sound pushy
FYIFor your informationCommon at work
OOOOut of officeCalendar and email use
EODEnd of dayCheck the time zone you mean

People and relationships

AbbreviationMeaningNote
BFFBest friends forever
BF / GFBoyfriend / girlfriend
BAEBefore anyone else (a term of endearment)Informal
DMDirect message
PMPrivate message (not the time of day)
OPOriginal posterForums and Reddit
IRLIn real life
FOMOFear of missing out
YOLOYou only live onceNow used mostly with irony
GOATGreatest of all timePraise, especially in sport
ILYI love you

Opinions, advice and summaries

AbbreviationMeaningNote
TL;DRToo long; didn't readAlso used to introduce a summary
TILToday I learned
ELI5Explain like I'm fiveRequest for a simple explanation
AMAAsk me anythingQ&A format
IIRCIf I recall correctly
AFAIKAs far as I know
FWIWFor what it's worth
TBCTo be confirmedCommon at work
NSFWNot safe for workContent warning
SFWSafe for work
RIPRest in peaceSerious or joking depending on context
JKJust kidding
NVMNever mind
THX / TYThanks / thank you
PLS / PLZPlease
NPNo problem
YWYou're welcome
WFHWorking from homeNormal in workplace messages
WYDWhat (are) you doing?
HMUHit me up (contact me)
SLAYDo something impressively wellSocial media praise
FTWFor the win
AFUsed for emphasis; rude if spelled outAvoid at work

Plus the letter-number forms gr8 (great), 2moro (tomorrow), b4 (before), l8r (later) and u (you). These look very informal and are best kept to personal texts.

Which abbreviations are safe at work?

Some abbreviations have become standard in offices. Others can damage your tone.

Usually fine in workplace chatThink twiceAvoid
FYI, ETA, EOD, OOO, WFH, TBC, BTW, BRB, LMK, ASAPIDK, TBH, NGL, IMO, SMH, IKR, TTYL, RN, NPLMAO, LMFAO, OMG, WTF, AF, YOLO, BAE, gr8, 2moro, u

Workplaces differ. A start-up Slack and a law firm's email system set very different norms. A good habit is to copy the level of formality your manager and clients use, and to be a little more formal than they are.

Abbreviations to avoid in emails

In emails, especially to people you do not know well, write full words:

  • Instead of "pls send ASAP", write "Please send this as soon as you can, ideally by Friday." A deadline is clearer than ASAP.
  • Instead of "LMK", write "Please let me know."
  • Instead of "FYI", write "For your information" or "I am sending this for your reference."
  • Instead of "thx", write "Thank you."

See our guides to email etiquette and how to end an email for sign-offs and tone, and Latin abbreviations for the formal ones (e.g., i.e., etc.) that are fine in professional writing.

Before and after: rewriting a text for work

Casual version:

"hey LMK if u can do fri, ngl i'm swamped rn but IKR the deck is due EOD thx"

Workplace version:

"Hi Priya, please let me know whether you are free on Friday. I am very busy at the moment, but I understand the presentation is due at the end of the day. Thank you."

Notice what changed: complete sentences, a greeting, a name, one clear request and no abbreviations that could be misread.

Regional slang: UK, US and Australia

Slang is local. Abbreviations travel well across English-speaking countries, but spoken-style slang does not.

United Kingdom

  • "Innit" (isn't it) tags a statement in speech and texts.
  • "Cheers" means thanks or goodbye.
  • "Mate" is a friendly form of address.
  • "Gutted" means very disappointed.
  • "Knackered" means exhausted.
  • "Tbf" (to be fair) is very common in British chat.
  • "Quid" means pounds (money).

United States

  • "Y'all" means you (plural).
  • "Ghosting" means ending contact without explanation.
  • "Salty" means resentful or annoyed.
  • "Lowkey" and "highkey" mean slightly and very much.
  • "Bet" means okay or agreed.
  • "Cap" means a lie ("no cap" means truthfully).

Australia

  • "Arvo" means afternoon.
  • "Servo" means petrol station.
  • "Heaps" means a lot.
  • "No worries" means you're welcome, or it's fine.
  • "Reckon" means think.
  • "Brekkie" means breakfast.

If your reader is in another country or from another generation, avoid regional slang. Some terms mean different things in different places: "pants" are trousers in the US but underwear in the UK; "rubber" is an eraser in the UK.

How abbreviations are punctuated and capitalised

Texting abbreviations are usually written in lower case in casual chat (lol, lmk) and in capitals in more formal contexts (FYI, ETA). When you must use one in a professional message, capitals look more deliberate. TL;DR has a semicolon and sometimes a colon after it: "TL;DR: the vote passed." Dotted forms such as "L.O.L." are not used.

An initialism like FYI takes "an" when it begins with a vowel sound: "an FYI", "an ETA". "A TL;DR" is spoken as the letters "tee-ell-dee-arr", so "a" fits.

Common mistakes with slang and abbreviations

  1. Assuming everyone knows them. Older readers, new colleagues and non-native speakers may not.
  2. Using the wrong meaning. PM can mean "private message", "prime minister", "project manager" or "afternoon".
  3. Sending emotional messages in abbreviations. A reply of "k" or "fine" can seem cold; type a full word or a short sentence.
  4. Mixing registers. A formal paragraph followed by "lol" looks careless.
  5. Using swear-word abbreviations in public. LMAO, WTF and AF can offend in professional or school settings.
  6. Over-use. A text where every other word is shortened is tiring to read.

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Frequently asked questions

What does LMAO mean?

LMAO stands for "laughing my a-- off" and shows that something is very funny, a step up from LOL. It contains a mild swear word, so avoid it in work emails, school messages or anything a manager, client or teacher might read.

What does TL;DR mean?

TL;DR stands for "too long; didn't read". People use it either to say a text was too long to read or, more usefully, to introduce a one-line summary at the top of a long post or message. It is fine in blogs and forums but not in formal reports.

Is it OK to use abbreviations like FYI and ASAP in emails?

FYI and ASAP are accepted in many workplaces, but ASAP can sound pushy and gives no real deadline. A date is clearer. In emails to clients, tutors or senior managers, write the full phrase and match the formality they use with you.

What does IRL mean?

IRL means "in real life". People use it to separate offline life from online life, as in "We met online, but never IRL". It is informal and best kept to chats and social media, not essays or formal correspondence.

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